How to Gently Detox Your Body And Mind After Holidays

After all the holiday feasts—too much pie, gingerbread, and mashed potatoes—it’s no wonder you’re feeling a little off balance. Maybe you spent too many hours with co-workers and family, who drained you. Perhaps you had too much hot buttered rum and peppermint mocha lattes, and too little sleep.

As a result of all that holiday indulgence and zero time at the gym, you feel sluggish and bloated. Pressing reset and focusing on feeling healthier and more energized might be challenging. But what if instead of diving into harsh cleanses or extreme diets, you rather consider a gentler, more sustainable approach to detoxing—one rooted in self-compassion and nourishment?

Swap self-criticism for self-compassion to nourish your body and mind

Sure, you may be angry at yourself for overindulging and want to berate yourself for lacking willpower. You are not the only one. Studies show that between Thanksgiving and New Year, on average, adults gain around 1-2 pounds. The key is shifting your mindset from self-loathing to self-love.

So, set an intention to make the changes because you love and care about yourself and your health, not because you hate yourself for gaining a few pounds. You probably didn’t gain as much weight as you may think.

Research shows that self-criticism doesn’t help: it’s demotivating and associated with procrastination and worse, self-control. That’s because self-criticism creates a cycle of guilt and shame that makes it harder to take positive action and more likely that you’ll reach for a pint of cookies and cream to soothe yourself.

In contrast, self-compassion is associated with healthier behaviors, increased well-being, and better body image, and less anxiety, depression, stress, rumination, and fear of failure.

Practicing self-compassion is simple. Start by being kind to yourself rather than critical. Next acknowledge your humanity. After all you’re not the only human to overindulge in eggnog and Christmas cookies. Then be mindful of your needs as you focus on how you want to feel moving forward.

Ask yourself:

• How do I want to look and feel in 2025?
• What steps can I take to care for my body, mind, and spirit?
• How can I be kind to myself during this process?

Think Beyond Food and Alcohol: What Areas of Your Life Need Detoxing?

While we often associate detoxing with food and drink, other areas of your life may need a reset, too. The new year is a perfect time to assess your habits, relationships, and routines.

Here are some areas to consider:

• Habits: Are you spending too much time scrolling social media or binge-watching TV or staying up late instead of prioritizing sleep?
• Relationships: Are there toxic people in your life who are draining your energy?
• Physical Space: Is your home cluttered, making you feel overwhelmed?
• Mindset: Are you carrying outdated, negative thoughts or limiting beliefs that you want to release or change?

Detoxing isn’t about deprivation—it’s about ditching what no longer serves you so you can create space for what does nourish and energize you.

5 Steps to Detox and Reset

Once you’ve identified the areas you want to detox, it’s time to create an action plan. Here’s how to approach it step by step:

1. Declutter Your Pantry and Fridge

If food and drink are your focus, start by removing items that don’t support your health goals. This might include sugary snacks, processed foods, or leftover holiday treats.

Replace them with:

• Fresh fruits and vegetables
• Whole grains
• Foods rich in healthy fats, such as nuts and seeds
• Lean proteins
• Sugar-free treats (try baking with natural sweeteners like applesauce, dates or monk fruit)

If you’re cutting back on alcohol (a wise idea given that the US Surgeon General recently recognized alcohol consumption as a leading modifiable cancer risk factor), stock up on sparkling water, herbal teas, and ingredients for mocktails. Pair the alcohol free beverages with relaxation rituals like meditation, yoga, a hot bath, or soothing music to unwind.

2. Create Healthier Habits

If your goal is to reduce time spent on screens, set boundaries like “no phones at the dinner table” or “TV off by 9 PM.” Consider deleting some social media apps for a period of time to evaluate how you feel when you spend less time online.

Replace these habits with activities that nourish you, such as:

• Reading a good book
• Journaling
• Exploring a new hobby
• Spending time with friends

If your goal is to get 7-8 hours of sleep a night or exercise 5 times per a week take out your planner and schedule what you need to do to make your goal a reality. For example, you could block out time to take that early morning exercise class or set an alarm on your phone and hour before bedtime to remind you to start your sleep ritual.

3. Evaluate Relationships

Sometimes, detoxing means letting go of relationships that are draining or one-sided. This doesn’t mean cutting people out of your life recklessly. It means setting healthy boundaries.

Ask yourself:

• Does this relationship add value to my life?
• How can I communicate my needs more effectively? (Check out NonViolent Communications for ideas.)
• Is it time to step back or let go?

Focus on cultivating connections that uplift and inspire you. To make new friends and meet like-minded people, consider joining a group, taking a class, or volunteering for an organization that interests you.

4. Get Support

Embarking on a detox journey can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. Find someone or a group of people who can support and motivate you, whether it’s a friend, coach, or online community.

Ideas for Support:

• Partner with a friend for accountability.
• Hire a wellness coach, personal fitness trainer, or nutritionist to guide you.
• Join a local class or an online challenge.

Having someone in your corner who’s got your back can keep you on track.

5. Reward Yourself

Celebrate your progress along the way! Rewards don’t have to involve food or drink—they can be experiences or items that bring you joy and elevate your wellbeing.

Examples of rewards:

• A relaxing massage
• New workout gear
• A day trip or adventure
• A journal or book you’ve been wanting

Acknowledging your achievements reinforces positive behavior and keeps you motivated.

Sustaining Your Detox All Year Long

Change your mindset around detoxing as well. While it can create initial momentum, the goal isn’t just a temporary reset. It’s creating and then sustaining those new habits, so you thrive.

Here are some dos and don’ts to maintain your progress:

• Do focus on small, sustainable changes rather than drastic overhauls.
• Don’t be rigid about your behavior change and adopt an all-or-nothing attitude. If you slip up, learn from your experience and forgive yourself.
• Set SMART (Specific, measurable, achievable/actionable, realistic, time-sensitive) goals and update them regularly.
• Don’t rely on willpower. It’s vastly overrated, especially when it comes to food and alcohol.
• Do keep your environment supportive (e.g., stock your fridge with healthy options).
• Don’t give up. Changing behavior takes time and patience
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As you embark on your reset, remember small, intentional steps lead to big transformations. Focus on what truly makes you feel good, and let 2025 be your happiest, healthiest most self-loving year yet.

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